God forewarned Cain in Genesis 4:7 that sin was lurking at his door, ready to devour him. This still holds true today. While anger in and of itself is not bad, unbridled rage can quickly result in depraved remarks and deeds.
Even in moments of rage, Jesus commanded us not to make fun of or disparage others (Matthew 5:22). Do not bring complaints against them to court (v. 25). If necessary, leave your gift at the altar and swiftly make amends (v. 23–24).
So, what do we do instead of letting our anger out? Jesus shows us the BETTER WAY:
• Speak honestly yet gently, letting your “yes be yes” and “no be no” (v. 37).
• Instead of taking offense, turn the other cheek (v. 39).
• In service, go above and beyond (v. 41).
In other words, Christ is saying we should keep our cool, seek forgiveness rather than retribution, and consider how we might assist.
We can control our wrath before it controls us, with God’s assistance. As it says in Ephesians 4:26, “Be angry and do not sin.” Every one of us needs to be on the lookout for the “sin crouching at our door” and prevent it from entering, whether it is rage or any other temptation.
Friend, are you willing to replace your anger (insults and retaliation) with a wide-open door to virtuous deeds?
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Matthew 5:43–45a (ESV) 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.