If I could give my adult children only two pieces of advice, I would say: be humble and be kind, echoing Tim McGraw’s song. In a world that promotes entitlement, these virtues run counter to our culture.

BE HUMBLE: The Bible provides counsel for living humbly in Philippians 2:3. Here we are instructed to value others above self.

BE KIND: While Ephesians 4:32 commands kindness, tender heartedness, and forgiveness. Practicing humility and kindness requires intentionally shaping our attitudes and actions.

First, avoid selfish ambition that comes at the expense of others. Instead, look for opportunities to honor and serve others.

Second, nurture kindness and tender heartedness. A kind spirit builds people up rather than tearing them down – while a tender heart (caring and compassionate) opens our eyes to the needs of others.

Third, forgive those who have hurt you. Holding grudges feeds pride while forgiveness cultivates humility.

Finally, put others first. Laying down our own interests to serve others intentionally reorientates our priorities.

Friend, in an age of chaotic entitlement, the path to orderly contentment is one of humility and kindness.