“Purity: Waiting Until Marriage” by Neville Buchanan


Purity stands as a testament to our convictions. Waiting until marriage is a choice grounded in the Bible. This decision reflects an unwavering commitment to honor the sanctity of intimacy within the bounds of marriage (Hebrews 13:4).

Unveiling the deeper layers of this journey reveals countless benefits. Beyond our Biblical compass, staying pure allows for increased self-respect. It signifies a profound value for one’s own body and sexuality, fostering heightened self-esteem and self-worth (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

Relationships, too, are profoundly impacted by this choice. Delaying physical intimacy lays the foundation for a stronger emotional connection. Without the pressure of desire, couples can delve into understanding each other on a profound level, fostering a deeper bond (1 Thessalonians 4:3-4).

Intimacy, when saved for marriage, yields a treasure trove of rewards. Studies reveal that couples who wait are less likely to divorce (National Marriage Project, 20% less likely; University of Utah, 33% less likely). The relationship is also more rewarding. This is born out of the comfort, communication, and shared values nurtured during the waiting period (Song of Solomon 4:12; Proverbs 5:18-19).

The journey towards staying pure necessitates practical steps. Setting boundaries and open communication with your partner are paramount. Avoiding compromising situations and openly discussing your commitment fortify your resolve. Prayer becomes a source of strength, anchoring your journey in faith and divine guidance (Philippians 4:6-7; Proverbs 3:5-6).

Your path is not solitary; many have walked it before. A 2021 study by the Pew Research Center shows that 25% of couples wait until marriage (down from 58% in 1995). To remain pure, it is imperative that you ground yourself in faith, set goals, maintain physical and emotional well-being, and surround yourself with positive influences (1 Corinthians 10:13; Psalm 119:9-11).