The Pauline injunction to “Bear one another’s burdens” (Gal 6:2a; NASB) has become proverbial in many parts of society. Sometimes our society fulfills this command. When disaster strikes – fires burning homes, tornadoes tearing apart towns, hurricanes destroying cities ­– we see groups of volunteers from all over the country drive down to help, and even more people donate goods to help those who have lost their possessions.

Yet, there are other ways in which we fail at this in society and even in our churches. First, when we hear that one of our brothers or sisters is suffering, do we reach out to them? Do we write them a card, give them a call or visit, send them a text or email? At the very least, do we pray for them daily or do we forget our own family members?

Second, do we make the effort to know if members of our heavenly family are suffering? Are we involved in each other’s lives enough to know if someone has been struck down by trials and temptations? Even more so, when we see each other, do we make a point to share our burdens with one another? Does our pride keep us from sharing our loads with others because we do not want to appear weak?

Sadly, I often fail in most of these areas. Being conscious of them, though, helps me to realize that I need to make a greater effort to comfort those who are in grief, to encourage those who are downcast, and to spend more time checking in with my church family. Hopefully, we can all take more time to get to know one another and gain the courage to share our own failings, struggles, and burdens so that others can help us carry them. Together, the synergy of our joint efforts will make the burdens lighter for everyone. And it is only “together” that we can fulfill the law of Christ (Gal 6:2b).