The purpose of God in my life will flow out of both my scars as well as my successes. In the life of Paul, it can be seen in a submissive word from God: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness” (2 Cor.12:9 NKJV).

After I have embraced who I am and how I got there I need to know that Jesus accepts me just as I am. Jesus said: “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28–30 (ESV)). It is Jesus’ blood bought grace gift that makes me acceptable before God. Nothing but the cross I bring.

From this point the life we live is Christ living vicariously through us. That means:

• Love God and your neighbor, Mt.22:37-39.

· Do unto others as you would want them to do to you, Mt.7:12.

• Pray continually and be thankful always, 1 Thess.5:17-18.

• Forgive seventy times seven, Mt.18:21-22.

• Your best decisions will reflect your values (God’s will), Js.4:17.

Friend do not let life get the better of you. Rather, live the life God created for you.