Science says the most successful kids need five things from their parents. Can anyone guess what number one is? “They make sure Mom is happy” (t.ly/pX9X). Apparently, Mom’s happiness was twice as important as Dad’s when it came to the mental health issues in boys. When it came to girls “only their mother’s happiness was found to be linked to their mental health as teens”.
So, how do we make sure Moms are happy? It is very simple. Show them respect and love. Exodus 20:12 (ESV) “Honor your father and your mother” … Leviticus 19:3 (ESV) “Every one of you shall revere his mother and his father”.
Practically speaking, how do we show love and respect?
· Show that you care by asking her to share a story from her youth. For instance: “Mom, what did you like to do when you were my age”?
· Notice her emotions. I.e., “Mom, I can see you are frustrated (sad/happy/stressed). “Is there anything I can do”?
· Checking in. Send a quick text. I.e., “Just checking in”.
· Make it right. i.e., “Mom, I am so sorry – please forgive me”.
Friend, do you still have a Mom? Then follow Solomon’s advice: “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her” (Pro.31:28, ESV).