The day the sad birds started circling over Jacob’s head probably started like just any other day. But then the sons turn up with evidence for Jacob to identify. Through tear-drenched eyes, Jacob’s broken heart sobs: “It is my son’s robe. A fierce animal has devoured him. Joseph is without doubt torn to
pieces” (Gen.37:33).

All his sons and daughters tried in vain to console Jacob. Instead, he said: “No, I shall go down to Sheol to my son, mourning” (Gen.37:35).

Grief hurts so bad! Friends say they understand – but they don’t. From the depths of your soul, you realize that life as you knew it is over. In its wake is confusion and questions without answers. Even good people say unhelpful things. Your heart is shattered – and somewhere deep inside you realize your heart is going to need rebuilding and healing. It was because Jacob loved Joseph so deeply that the pain was so bad.

Yesterday, Billie Rogers shared this with me: “Grief never ends… But it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith… It is the price of love.” — Unknown

For Jacob, and all of God’s people, death is not the end. It took a while, but eventually, Jacob heard these joyous words: “Joseph is still alive, and he is ruler over all the land of Egypt” (Gen.45:26). To which he replied: “It is enough; Joseph my son is still alive. I will go and see him before I die” (Gen.45:28).

Friend, soon and very soon a joy-filled day will arrive. Because everyone who lives and believes in Jesus Christ shall never die. Do you believe this (John 11:26)?