This morning I was shocked to hear about the trauma members of our congregation are going through. Their surveillance camera caught an older, male teen watching them.
Think about the scars something like this causes. If you cannot even be safe in your own home, in a safe neighborhood, in the USA – where in the world can you be safe? Will the females in this family be affected every time a male looks at them? Will they still feel safe in their home? Will they be closing the blinds in the late afternoon?
Unfortunately, this young criminal will get away with little more than a slap on the wrist. But this victimized family will carry the scars for many, many years.
So, what is the path to healing? In 2 Chronicles 20:12 we learn how Jehoshaphat dealt with similar trauma – but on a much larger scale. The nation of Israel where being stalked by the men of Ammon and Moab and Mount Seir. Israel was completely powerless against the reprehensible behavior of these nations.
Rather than fixing his eyes on the “criminals”, in prayer, he fixes Israel’s eyes on the Lord. 2 Chronicles 20:12 (ESV) — 12 O our God, will you not execute judgment on them? For we are powerless against this great horde that is coming against us. We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you.”
God’s people were extremely vulnerable as they “stood before the Lord, with their little ones, their wives, and their children”. But God heard their prayer and sent His Spirit on Jahaziel who said: Thus says the Lord to you, ‘Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed at this great horde, for the battle is not yours but God’s. … You will not need to fight in this battle. Standing firm, hold your position, and see the salvation of the Lord on your behalf, O Judah and Jerusalem.’ Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed. Tomorrow go out against them, and the Lord will be with you” (2 Chronicles 20:15–17 ESV).
God turned the enemies of His people against themselves. All that was left was dead bodies and a lot of plunder.
So, what do you do when you discover “someone is watching you”?
Common sense says to do everything you can to protect yourself. While doing mission work in Kenya I found many eyes on us. During a 9-month period, we had 16 attempted break-ins. Twice we had criminals in our home – while we were in our home and the alarms were going off. So, I bought two big German Shepherd dogs and placed all my burglar alarms outside my home. These were connected to a mini alarm that alerted us to approaching criminals. This stopped all criminal activity.
However, the only way to eternally restore our sanity and protect our loved ones is to be able to tell God in prayer … “our eyes are on You”.